08/05/2026
Last year, JHM received a donation of early 1800's letters, originally written to and from members of the Humrickhouse family. These letters cover a little bit of everything - daily chores, runaway carriages and even the latest gossip about Ruth Elliott's "hasty" wedding date.
Here is a romantic letter from 1846, written by Margaret (Mag) Humrickhouse to Robert C. Kinkead. Mag's words strongly suggest that Robert's original letter was a direct declaration of love and intent to marry. Her enthusiastic response is tender, deeply affectionate...and just a little spicy.
Their wedding day was not hasty - Mag Humrickhouse and Robert C. Kinkead married over a year later, on April 1, 1847, in Greenfield, Ohio. They did however have nine children.
The full letter can be read below:
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Dear Robert,
You must not think me too hasty in acknowledging the receipt of your truly welcome letter, but I only do as I would be done by, and besides I cannot deny myself the pleasure of confessing the extreme happiness its contents afforded me, by awakening an answering chord in my own heart, to the sentiments there expressed.
If it is any happiness to you to know that you occupy the highest and dearest place in my heart, then may you enjoy that pleasure for I do assure you I had given you my heart long before I ever dreamed I had one to bestow on any person, and without having the slightest idea that I ever occupied even a momentary thought of yours.
That I was very much surprised both at the receipt and contents of your letter, I must acknowledge, but words cannot express the happiness I felt on pursuing it for the thought that I loved so entirely and devotedly without a return was exceedingly painful to so sensitive a heart as mine. You can only realize the pleasure I received from your letter, by receiving a full and candid avowal of my feelings towards you, which I give, in a full surrender of my whole heart to you, and I do assure you it is a warm and affectionate heart, its pulse beating for you and you alone.
I hope dear Robert,
You donât think me so mercenary as to require a fortune in exchange for my heart, far from it, all I ask is your heart wholly and unreservedly, that I consider that is necessary to complete my happiness in this world. I sincerely thank you for kind wishes for my welfare, and hope all the blessings which you ask for me may be showered upon yourself, which would give me more pleasure than to receive them myself, for selfishness is not one of my faults, thought I have so many that I fear when you are better acquainted and learn them you will cease to love me,
You must excuse me
For not writing a long letter this time, for my heart is such a flutter, (with its newfound happiness) that I cannot compose my thoughts sufficiently to transfer them to paper. Write soon, very soon, I shall expect a letter every week, and a visit as soon as Mr. H. returns, you forget to call me Mag, if you knew how I dislike Margaret (I donât see how you write it, it is so long), you would never call me so.
Goodbye.
Wishing you a happy new year
Ever yours
Mag