09/03/2026
Polo History
Betty Obendorf
September 2, 2026
Having Daniel Ended the Week Nicely
The week started out sad when Beverly and I went out to Fairmount Cemetery for the burial of Dick Unger from the Class of 1950. Dick and I grew up together in the Lutheran Church and we were confirmed March 25, 1945. There were 18 of us in the confirmation class with Rev. Kabele as the minister.
Then in September of 1946, we headed off to high school and graduated in 1950. I went then to Watt Publishing in Mt. Morris and Dick eventually went into the United States Air Force. He married Marilyn Bruce, also from the Class of 1950 and two years later she died from a brain tumor.
Marilyn was brought back to Fairmount Cemetery and many from the Class of 1950 consoled Dick with letters of love and comfort. One of those was Margaret Wilson, Class of 1950. She by that time was a music teacher at Midland, MI. They continued to correspond and soon Dick felt he needed to be in Midland instead of in the air force.
After Dick and Margaret were married I continued to hear about what was going on in their lives. They retired to Lake Ann and a little house by the lake. When Kenneth and I visited them we took our daughter Susan and two granddaughters along. The little girls loved to play in the little row boat by the lake while we chatted away and caught up on our lives.
All too soon Margaret was gone and she was brought back to Fairmount to rest near Marilyn. Now Dick is there in the shade of the tree in a beautiful spot near Marilyn and Margaret. All of us from the Class of 1950.
On Wednesday came the news that Betty Ebert had passed away and she was from the Class of 1951 and we were all in music together. Betty and I both taught for Polo and we worked on some projects together even though she was in the high school and I was at Centennial. After we retired we would to together to retirement meetings. So it seemed the week was a sad week as I thought about past years.
But I got a call from grandson Daniel and he was coming out to visit before he headed back to seminary. He is 6 foot nine and has a big appetite. He is Steve and Cheri’s youngest child and I love to cook for him. What would I fix that would be easy so we could visit?
I decided on pot roast with vegetables which was Kenneth’s favorite meal. I went to the Farmer’s Market and got more fresh green beans from Jim. Daniel loved them and wondered how I had fixed them. Just green beans, potatoes, onions, and bacon. But you have to have fresh green beans from the garden. I also sent him home with orange rolls made by Beth. He had never had those.
What started out as a sad week, ended up with a great visit with a grandson who has started back to school. to be a priest. He will not be here at Christmas but will be in some other country so this was an important visit.
A good way to end the week.