06/30/2022
A Special Message from Melissa:
With so many iterations of good bye it is hard to have this day pass unceremoniously, so I find myself compelled to write. Today marks the last day of Your Art’s Desire. Tomorrow, we will release the keys that 17 years earlier unlocked the doors to its possibility.
There is something about endings that invites you to sit in a rarefied opportunity where past, present, and future will all converge, gently asking that you give rightful attention to each.
For months, my present moments could only hold a roiling range of emotion, edging out the space needed for the words, thoughts or hope that had no choice but to simply wait its turn. From sorrow to gratitude, I cycled around a childlike defiance, challenging the need to release this prized possession. It was in this cacophony of inner noise, that we found people standing in front of us, endeavoring to assemble words of gratitude that the ordinariness of most days would never dare them to say.
Over time, the practical reality of endings found its way into our daily activities. Space that once just held our day to day lives, now required excavation and an ever-present grappling with sentimentality and limited space. But it is in this crossroads that the past delivers its treasures. Each encounter with an object brings a flood of memories, once again reminding you of the lives you’ve touched, and the challenges you have overcome. The best gift this kind of retrospective provides is the one ushered in with, “Wow, I don’t even remember doing that.” Delivering a reflection of a resilience and cleverness that somehow, even your ego lost track of taking ownership of.
It is only in this kind of reverie that you can dare to look at the vast field of opportunity…and uncertainty…that the future holds open to you. It is in the infinite wisdom of revisiting the past, that you find the courage to meet the only inquiry the future knows how to ask, “And in which direction will you choose to travel today?” Thank you for the role you played in the life of Your Art’s Desire and for bearing witness to it all.