07/23/2026
Our next segment of our TBT posts is on the wives of Governor Richard Caswell. A few things to note, there are multiple ways to spell his first wife's last name. There is also no known portrait of any of his wives. The photo supplied is copyrighted to PBS and Ken Burns' American Revolution documentary. All credit goes to them.
The Wives of Richard Caswell
Mary Mackilwean Caswell (c. 1731–1757) was the first wife of Governor Richard Caswell and the daughter of James Mackilwean, North Carolina's Surveyor General. Around 1745, the young Richard Caswell apprenticed under James Mackilwean, beginning a relationship that led to his marriage to Mary on April 21, 1752, at the family's Tower Hill plantation near present-day Kinston.
Mary and Richard had three children. Their first and third daughters died in infancy, while their son, William Caswell (1754–1784), became a Continental Army officer, North Carolina adjutant general, state legislator, and planter.
Just three days after the birth of her youngest daughter, Mary died from childbirth complications on February 7, 1757, at about 25 years of age. She was buried in the Caswell Family Cemetery at the Red House plantation, now part of the Governor Richard Caswell Memorial Site.
Although little is known about her personal life, Mary played an important role during the early years of Richard Caswell's career. Her father's mentorship helped launch Caswell's public service, and her son went on to become a distinguished Revolutionary War officer. Because she died nearly twenty years before Caswell became governor, Mary was never North Carolina's First Lady.
Sarah Herritage Caswell (1740–1794) was the second wife of Governor Richard Caswell, North Carolina's first governor after independence, and served as the state's first and fifth First Lady during his nonconsecutive terms from 1776–1780 and 1785–1787. Although few records document her personal activities, she played an essential role in supporting one of North Carolina's most influential Revolutionary-era families.
Born in Craven County around 1740, Sarah was the daughter of William Herritage, a prominent lawyer, planter, and colonial official, and Susannah Moore. She grew up in one of eastern North Carolina's leading families, surrounded by the political and legal affairs that shaped the colony before the American Revolution.
On June 20, 1758, Sarah married Richard Caswell following the death of his first wife, Mary Mackilwean. Together they had eight children, while Sarah also became stepmother to Caswell's surviving son from his first marriage. Throughout Richard Caswell's military and political career, she managed their household and plantations, including Newington near present-day Kinston.
During the American Revolution, Sarah maintained the family's home while her husband served as a military commander and later as governor. With Richard frequently away on public business, she oversaw the upbringing of their children and the daily operations of their plantation. Like many women of the Revolutionary era, her contributions were largely domestic but were vital to her family's stability during years of war and political uncertainty.
As North Carolina's first First Lady, Sarah helped establish a role that had no formal precedent. Living in New Bern while it served as the state capital, she managed the governor's household and likely welcomed visitors, legislators, and military leaders. Although little survives describing her public responsibilities, her support allowed Governor Caswell to focus on leading the new state during one of the most challenging periods in its history.
Following Richard Caswell's first governorship, the family returned to Newington while he continued serving North Carolina in military and legislative roles. When he was elected governor again in 1785, Sarah resumed her responsibilities as First Lady during the state's postwar recovery.
After Richard Caswell died in 1789, Sarah remained at Newington, managing family affairs until her own death in 1794. She was buried beside her husband in the Caswell Family Cemetery near present-day Kinston, where their graves remain part of the Governor Richard Caswell Memorial Site.
Sarah Herritage Caswell's legacy reflects the often-overlooked contributions of women during the American Revolution. While history remembers her primarily as the wife of a founding governor, her work in raising a large family, managing plantations, and maintaining the governor's household provided the stability that enabled Richard Caswell's public service.
Today, she is remembered as North Carolina's first First Lady and an important member of one of the state's founding families.