09/11/2026
Never forget.
While other flags across the United States fly at half-staff for the 20th anniversary of 9/11 attacks, this small flag will continue to stand tall at its full 11 inches. It sits on the reception desk at the Dorflinger Glass Museum where it has since the spring of 2001. At first it served as a patriotic souvenir from the Frederick D. Suydam Memorial Association Dinner where it graced a table. In the aftermath of the events of September 11, 2001, this small flag took on new meaning.
This flag stands in memory of John P. O’Neill and Randolph (Randy) Scott, two members of the Suydam Association. Both men died on September 11, 2001.
In the spring of 2001, the association honored Special Agent John P. O'Neill for his career with the FBI and his counter-terrorism work as an expert on Al-Qaeda. O’Neill retired as the FBI’s counter-terrorism head to become chief of security at the World Trade Center. He died in the 9/11 attacks while helping to evacuate the south tower.
Randolph (Randy) Scott worked at Euro Brokers in the World Trade Center. Each year, he escorted his aunt, Hedy Kupersmit to the Suydam dinners. Hedy’s husband Julius was one of the group of men who started the annual event.
Randy’s only law enforcement connection was to an officer in a local municipality who regularly took note of Randy’s lead foot and propensity for speed. This lead to a few citations. Randy’s sense of humor was evident when he gleefully told this story on himself. At one of the dinners he made small talk with a man at his table. This man mentioned that he was from a municipality which happened to be the same as the officer mentioned above.
Making small talk, Randy told his dinner companion about his multiple interactions with the officer. He forgot about the conversation until a few months later when he saw official lights in his rear view mirror. As the officer approached, Randy’s thoughts were, “not again.” As he opened his window, the officer greeted him saying, “Good morning Sir, I just wanted to let you know that we won’t be seeing each other again. Have a good day.”
Randy Scott wrote the following on the morning of September 11, 2001, “84th floor. West Office. 12 people trapped”. A person at the scene found the note on the ground not long before the towers collapsed. Randy’s DNA appeared on the note which was returned to his family.
With our small flag, we honor the memories of John and Randy, together with all of those who died on September 11, 2001, each and every day.
Frederick Dorflinger Suydam had great respect and admiration for members of the law enforcement community. While serving in the Office of Strategic Services during World War II, Fred recognized the importance of inter-agency cooperation in intelligence activities. He hosted dinners that often included members from a variety of New York’s regional, state and federal law enforcement agencies. He believed that this social interaction would lead to better communication on the professional level.
After Fred Suydam died in 1960, his friends decided to memorialize him by hosting an annual dinner for members of the New York City regional law enforcement community. Each year since, the association selects an award recipient for the Frederick D. Suydam Award alternating yearly between a regionally prominent and a nationally prominent person.