10/03/2026
Emerson's Aunt Mary Moody Emerson had a tremendous influence on him. She encouraged young Waldo to enjoy nature and to keep a daily journal, as she did. Her nephew would borrow largely from her journals when writing his essays and lectures. Aunt Mary instructed him to, "do what you are afraid to do,"—a quotation that he is now well known for.
Mary Moody Emerson chose to remain single, preferring an independent spiritual and intellectual life. She was a strong minded and opinionated women. She was also eccentric. According to her nephew, she made her bed as a coffin and wore out many shrouds in preparation for her ever-anticipated death. He remarked, "And when at last her release arrived," on October 3, 1863, "the event of her death had really such a comic tinge in the eyes of every one who knew her, that her friends feared they might, at her funeral, not dare to look at each other, lest they should forget the serious proprieties of the hour."
Despite his levity, Emerson greatly admired his aunt and he called her "my heroine." The epitaph on her headstone is his tribute to her: "She gave high counsels. It was the privilege of certain boys to have this immeasurably high standard indicated to their childhood; a blessing which nothing else in education could supply."
To her disappointment, Mary Moody Emerson lived to be 89 years old, her life spanning the American Revolution to the American Civil War. Rest in peace, Aunt Mary!
📷: Kristi Martin