26/08/2026
12 Rabi-ul-Awwal: Ishq-e-Rasool ya Sirf Ek Dikhawa? 🛑
12 Rabi-ul-Awwal ek aisi tarikh hai jo humare dilon ke bohot qareeb hai. Koi ise paidaish ki khushi (Milad) kehta hai, toh koi wafat ka gham (12 Wafat). Lekin aaj ek kadwa sawal khud se poochne ka waqt hai:
Aaj rasto par jo shor-sharaba, DJ par bajti naatein, aur lakho rupayon ki lighting ho rahi hai... kya wakayi ye Ishq-e-Rasool hai? Ya humari sachi mohabbat kahin bhatak kar sirf ek "dikhawa" ban chuki hai? Hamare bujurgon ne apne ruhaniyat mein utaar Kar isq e rasul ko dikhaya lekin Ham uska sirf dikhava karte Hain
🧠 Extreme Dedication Ka Jaal:
Psychology kehti hai ki jab kisi chiz mein "extreme dedication" ya andhi aqeedat paida ho jati hai, toh insaan apna balance kho deta hai. Waqt ke sath, andar ki sachi tadap aur roohaniyat bahar ke dikhawe mein badal jati hai. Roohaniyat jab dikhave mein Badal jaati Hai to vo Bid-at Ban jaati Hai , aur fir yahin se andhbhakti paida hoti hai .
Aaj halat ye hai ki humara dhyan Sunnat par nahi, is baat par hai ki: "Mere mohalle ki light, pados wale mohalle se behtar honi chahiye ya Main Apne padosi se behtar khana banaun " Yeh ishq nahi, sirf humari anaa (ego) aur competition hai.
📖 Ulema Aur Scholars Ka Nazariya:
Chahe aap kanooni (legal) ulema ko sunein ya roohani Sufi buzurgon ko, dono ka nateeja ek hi hai:
Unka sawal bohot logical hai—"Tum ek din rasto par jashn manate ho, aur baaki 364 din unki sunnaton (sach bolna, parde ka ehtram, lenden mein imandari) ko bhool jate ho?" Unhone hamesha "Milad" se zyada "Seerat" (kirdar) apnane par zor diya.
(Sufi Nazariya): Moulana Rumi jo Ishq-e-Rasool mein doobe hue the, unka manna tha ki sacha jashn rasto par nahi, insaan ke andar (Batin) mein hota hai. Jab aapke akhlaq Nabi (PBUH) jaise hone lagein, tab asal Milad hota hai. Unhone bhi shor-sharabe aur fizul kharchi ki taleem nahi di.
✨ Toh Asal Maqsad Kya Hai?
Agar aap sach mein Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) se mohabbat karte hain, toh is din ko shor-sharabe ki jagah khud-ehtesabi (reflection) ka din banaiye:
Jo paisa hazaron ki lights aur juloos mein jalaya jata hai, use chup-chaap kisi garib ya zaroorat-mand ke ghar rashan dene mein lagayein.
Aaj kisi ko Prophet (PBUH) ki Seerat ki kitaab tohfe (gift) mein dein.
Unki koi ek sunnat (jaise gussa peena ya sach bolna) aaj se apni zindagi mein pakki kar lein.
Sachi mohabbat chup chap hoti hai, wo shor nahi machati. Wo amal se dikhti hai, paiso ke dikhawe se nahi. Apne jazbaat ko extreme dedication ki bhent chadha kar rasm-o-riwaj na banayein, balki aisi dedication layein jo aapki aur society ki zindagi badal de.
Aapka is baare mein kya khayal hai? Niche comments mein zaroor batayein. 👇